Monday, February 28, 2011

"I'll Tell Ya What I Want, What I Really Really Want..."



Property Details:
Sq. Feet: 1716 ft.
Acres: 0.20
Year Built: 2004
Bedrooms: 3
Bathrooms: 2
Cooling: Central Air
Heating: Forced Air
Garage: 2 Car

Description:
This home features beautiful hard-wood flooring leading from the front door into the great room, including through the kitchen area, as well as new carpet in the living room. The master bathroom has an extra-large soaker tub with a separate shower. The home also has gorgeous lighting fixtures and fans, a dedicated laundry room with tile floor, and an unfinished basement for extra storage (adds an additional 1,500 sq/ft at no extra cost).

Located just eight minutes from I-15 and 10 miles from Provo, you are located in a prime location to be further from the busier cities but close to great shopping through the Utah Valley as well as nearly instant access to national parks, the entrance to multiple canyons, fishing, and more.


We went and looked at this house for rent in Spanish Fork on Saturday. I'm in love...

Saturday, February 26, 2011

A Friday in My Life

I realized the other day that the only days I've ever done this have been Monday, and those are my least favorite day because it's my cleaning day. So here's a Friday, although it's not terribly exciting either.

1:15 AM- Adelia wakes up and screams bloody murder for 20 minutes. Then Aaron gets up with her and puts her back to bed. (It was his turn, since I'd had all the kids all by myself the day and night before because we were in Hooper.)
4:00 AM- Lincoln falls out of bed and starts crying very loudly. (I'm sure our upstairs neighbors love us right about now) It wakes up Ivan, and I think scares him, because he starts screaming too. I go in and put Lincoln back in bed (he's on the bottom bunk, so the fall could not have been that bad), and while I'm wiping his tears he tells me, "Mom, I fell out of bed and my blanket just tumbled down with me." Then I crawl around in the dark looking for Ivan's binky and rabbit. I hand them back to him and tuck him back in. I go back to bed.
7:00- Adelia is up. Aaron tells me to go get in the shower and he'll get her. I shower and get dressed. Somewhere while I was in the shower Linc gets up. Aaron showers, Lincoln eats breakfast. We have family prayer and Aaron leaves for work. He gets the car today because I took it to Hooper yesterday.
8:00- Ivan gets up and I fix he and I some scrambled eggs (because we are out of cow milk for me to eat cereal with and Ivan likes eggs better than cereal anyway) with almond milk mixed in. My mom made the almond milk for him yesterday while we were up there because I forgot to bring his rice milk. I think almond milk is better than rice milk. Just my opinion though.  After that, I set up a bag ball game for the boys. We gathered up all the balls they own and put them in a laundry basket. Then I took a paper grocery bag and cut the bottom our of it and taped it to the floor like a tunnel and showed them how to roll the balls through it. Then I leave them to it.


8:30- I dress Adelia and change her diaper. Then I do my hair and brush my teeth and the boys teeth. I take one look outside at the inches of cold looking snow, and give the boys the option of having a pajama day. They decide to stay in their jammies all day.
9:00- The boys want to do play dough, so I clear off the kitchen table and get the play dough out.
9:30- Adi is tired. I make her a bottle, take her to her room and feed her. Then I rock her, walk with her, sing to her, and lay her down to sleep.
9:47- We have no food in our house. I realize that if I don't make bread today we are not going to have anything to eat for lunch. I get out the wheat grinder, and the 5 gallon bucket with wheat in it. I grind some wheat.
10:04- Pull out the new bread recipe my mom gave me, that I really want to try. My current recipe seems to leave the bread really dense, even though it tastes good. This recipe is supposed to be fluffy. I take the flour out of the wheat grinder, and put the grinder away and get out my bosch mixer. (There is not room on my counter for both to be out at once.)
10:20- Change a nasty poopy diaper of Ivan's.
10:27- Ivan is done with the play dough. He gets out some cookie sheets and cake pans to play with. Linc is still happily doing play dough. He's pretending to make spaghetti. I turn on a Jim Wiess CD. He is a great story teller, and we have a lot of his CDs that have kids stories on them. This particular one has Goldie Locks and the Three Bears, Rumpelstiltskin, and a few others. I mix the dry ingredients in the mixer and add the hot water and mix again. This is a technique I've never done before called sponging. I unload the dishwasher while I wait 10-15 minutes for the sponge to rise.
10:54- My dough is mixing...the kids are done with play dough and playing together in the living room. I clean up the play dough, wipe the counters and the table. The I shape the bread loaves.
11:06- Put loaves into pans and then into oven to rise, and wipe off the table again.
11:11- Call Mom to ask how long to let the loaves rise. She has to call me back in a minute.
11:15- I tell Lincoln not to use the Bumbo to climb on the computer desk. He does it anyway, slips and falls and gets hurt. This is one of the most frustrating things to me, when I tell them not to do something because it will hurt them, and then they do it anyway and get hurt. I wonder if Heavenly Father feels like that all the time. Anyways, I won't pick Lincoln up, and he gets really mad and has a compete melt down. During the melt down, Ivan touches one of Linc's dinosaurs, and Linc freaks out even more and tries squeezing Ivan really hard. I send Linc to his bedroom.
11:18- Ivan and I play a quick game of what can we put in the paper sack. Basically, you take a paper grocery sack and leave it open in the middle of the floor. Then you put whatever you can find inside. Usually after it's full, my role in the game is over. Ivan will either unload the back right away, or he'll wait and stumble upon the full bag a little while later...either way, he enjoys rediscovering all the things we put inside the bag. It keeps him busy for a good 20 minutes. This time he chooses to leave it for later. I go to the kitchen and start to clean it. Ivan brings in his stacking and sorting balls and is playing with those.
11:22- Lincoln has calmed down and he comes out of his room. He play nicely on the floor with Ivan.
11:33- I slice an apple for the kids to snack on, since we can't eat lunch until the bread is done.
11:35- Mom has not called me back yet, so I check on the bread to see how it's rising. WOW!! It's HUGE. It's probably risen more than it should have. I am so surprised how fast it rose, it's only been a half hour. I set the temperature on the oven and start baking the bread.
11:59- Aaron calls. We talk for a few minutes.
12:06- Back to the kitchen, dishes are done, counters are wiped off, all I need to do is sweep and then make lunch. On second thought, I'll wait until after lunch to sweep. :) I check on the bread. Two minutes left, I can't wait!
12:10- Pull bread out and slice off a piece and butter it and eat. YUM!
12:13- Help boys build a fort out of couch cushions, then go make lunch.
12:23- Lunch is served. Ivan and I are having PB&J on fresh bread. Linc gets the sloppy joe he didn't even touch at dinner last night.
12:30- Ivan is playing with what's left of his food, that's how I know when he's done eating. I wash him up, leave Linc eating, and go put him down for a nap. We read Snuggle Puppy and sing I am a Child of God, I Have a Family Here on Earth, Give Said the Little Stream, and Whenever I Hear the Song of a Bird. I kiss him, give him bink and rabbit, tuck him under his blanket, and leave the room.
12:41- Linc is done with his lunch. I tell him I'm going to watch a Conference talk on LDS.org, and give him the option of watching with me or playing quietly. He chooses to sit on my lap and watch. I decide to watch Elder Uchtdorf's talk on What Matters Most.
1:05- Done watching. What a good talk. I've reread it a few time since Conference, and every time the idea that we need to slow down and simplify and work on 4 specific relationships always hits me pretty hard, and I rededicate myself to doing those things. Linc wants to do his dinosaur puzzle. I tell him to pick up his toys in the living room first and then we'll do his puzzle. He starts working on that.
1:10- Adelia wakes up. She had a LONG NAP! Holy cow. Must be because she pratically hasn't sleep in 3 days. Silly girl. I make her a bottle and feed her.
1:20- Change Adi's diaper and help Lincoln with his puzzle. I try to just talk him through it to help him stay interested ad focused, but so that he is actually doing it by himself. He's having a hard time grasping the idea of stright edge pieces vs. not straight edge pieces. But he's got corner pieces down pat.
1:51- We are done with the puzzle after putting it together three times. Time to feed Adi her pears. Lincoln does some pages out of his preschool book while I'm feeding Adelia. That way I can help him too.
2:16- Adi is done with her pears, she goes in the jumpy seat while I sweep the kitchen and talk Lincoln through his pages. Today he does the color black, and one with directions to color with lots of different colors. He does really well with both pagess.
2:23- Time for a treat! We each have a few peanut M&Ms, and then I slice Lincoln and I a piece of bread.
2:33- Lincoln gets in trouble for coloring with black marker on the kitchen chair. Luckily its washable marker. I send him to time out and set the timer for five minutes. He knows better. I work on putting the bread stuff away.
2:36- Take Adi out of her seat, and play with her on a blanket in the living room. Then I check my email, Facebook, and Goodreads.
2:45- Adi not happy. I try feeding her some more of her bottle. She's not interested. She wants to be virtical. I put her in her chair where she can see Lincoln building a dinosaur cave out of couch cushions while talking to himself. This makes her happy. I sit down for a minute and try to read Jesus the Christ, since I have a goal to finish it this year. I get about two paragraphs in...
2:55- Adi is tired. I put her down to bed.
3:05- Aaron called and said that Cherryl had some questions about the carpet cleaning company the apartment complex has used in the past. I leave Linc in the living room playing with his train set, and go up to her place. I talk to her for a bit, then we go out to the shed so I can show her where the spackle for patching holes in the walls is.
3:25- Back home, Linc is still playing trains. Misty comes to the door to see if we want to go play next door.
3:30- Linc and I go over to Misty's.
3:55- I come back to check on sleeping kids. Adelia is up, so I get her out of bed, and we are loud and wake up Ivan.  The three of us go back over to Misty's.
4:30- I tell the boys it's time to help clean up the toys, so we can go home and get dinner started.
4:35- Change Adelia's horendously smelly diaper.
4:40- Take chicken out of the freezer to thaw in the microwave, I check my phone messages, since my battery was dead my phone has been charging all day and I haven't had it with me to answer it. Not that that many people every call or text me :) But I did have a message from my mom who finally called me back. Then I read this week's Sentinel article, and think that I need to get going on mine if I want it done by the time I have to turn it in next week.
4:52- Lincoln is whining about his tent tipping over. The chicken is done, so I go into the kitchen to start the Chicken Fajita Pizza.
4:58- Linc is throwing a fit because Ivan broke the train track he'd made. I got get Ivan the Little People train out of their bedroom for Ivan to play with while Lincoln plays with the wooden one, so they still feel like they're playing together, but seperately enough to keep the peace. Back to making dinner.
5:10- Adelia is no longer happy in her jumpy chair. This means I take her out and hold her while trying to cook dinner one handed.
5:15- Aaron is home, yay! A little earlier than expected. I love those days.
5:26- Pizza is in the oven and ready to bake.
5:40- Dinner is served. We fight with Lincoln the entire meal to eat his pizza, which he won't touch. During the fight, our neighbor Cali comes over and asks to use out apple slicer, since hers is packed away because they are moving tomorrow :( While slicing the apple, Linc tells her all about what we're having for dinner and how delicious it is, and how he's going to eat all of it. That little worm (Lincoln, not Cali)...I guess we should have people come over more often during dinner so Lincoln will show off to them by eating, because we can't seem to get him to otherwise.
6:00- After dinner we load everyone up into the van and go to Home Depot to buy a 4x4 for a craft I'm making. The guy at the store was awesome and let us find a piece in the stack that was bent and no good as a whole piece of wood, then he cut off a piece of it for us and gave it to us as scrap for 50 cents. Cool. More on my craft some other day.
6:45- We are home. We get the boys ready for bed, give Adi a bottle and put her to bed.
7:00- Aaron is having "special story-time" with the boys. Which means they are all three on Ivan's top bunk reading stories. When I'm done putting Adelia down, I go in the living room and have a few blissful quiet minutes to myself.
7:30- I  join in on the end of "special story-time" for the last story, Snuggle Puppy, and for family prayer. I have a very difficult time getting myself off of the top bunk in one piece. We sing a few songs to the boys, tuck them in and kiss them good night.
7:40- Aaron tries the bread I made today and is very impressed. I dish us up some ice cream, but Aaron doesn't want any so I eat it all by myself. Yup. Aaron gets on the computer and pays the phone bill while I eat ice cream. Then we work together on our blog book. We made an awesome collage page with the pictures of Ivan's birthday. I love how it turned out.
9:20- Aaron is all blog-booked out, so we play two player Tetris on the internet. Aaron wins, but doesn't slaughter me. Then we watch some really funny videos of Ivan dancing in the mirror when he thought no one was watching. Love that kid.


10:22- We get ready for and go to bed!

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Sizzler!


Mom, Kerry, and Tanner came down yesterday and took us out to birthday dinner. I chose Sizzler. I love Sizzler. I got a steak and grilled shrimp skewers. I was in heaven. I came out so full, I'll never need to eat again.

Mom and Kerry got me some awesome new slip on Sketchers, which I'm so excited about because my other pair have definitely seen better days in their last five years.

Sunday's Combined Party


I'm pretty sure now that I've been clued in about collages, that my blog will never be the same...for better or for worse (worse only because it takes longer to create a collage)...Thanks Cali! :)

Sunday night Melissa and I had a combined birthday dinner at Richard and Debby's. Kelly and Esther even came down from Salt Lake to help celebrate. You can tell my kids haven't seen Kelly in awhile, because they start to get him and Aaron confused. It's kinda funny.


Dinner was delicious. Moroccan Stew with brown rice and chips. Aunt Debby spoiled Melissa and I rotten by making each of us our own special birthday dessert. Melissa had pineapple upside-down cake, and I have german chocolate cake. I don't think Aunt Debby has every made anything that wasn't fantastic, but I'll just say, her german chocolate cake is TO DIE FOR. Mmmmmmm.......

I got almost all the candles by myself, but Linc decided he'd better finish off the last one for me.


Ryan got Melissa this awesome hat. Everyone had to try it on, but I think Melissa and Adelia look the best in it.

Ryan and Melissa gave us our Christmas/my birthday present...a picture of a sail boat to hang on our bedroom wall. I'm so excited! Ryan took the picture (in Africa?) and then they made us the frame to go with it. It matches our bedroom perfectly.



Monday, February 21, 2011

Dinosaur Bones!

We had planned to go the aquarium in SLC on Saturday for my birthday, but after talking to a few people who said it wasn't that great and it wasn't that big and kinda pricey to get in, we didn't really want to take our chances on it. Instead we went to the Museum of Ancient Life at Thanksgiving point. It was only $1 a person more to get in, and we'd already been once two years ago, so we knew it was worth the price.


This year Thanksgiving Point has cool light exhibit called NASA Blast. They have all these really cool set ups that teach about light, and how most of what we know about space we discovered by watching how light behaves in space (bouncing off things, reflecting off of things, etc.) Every station in this exhibit was hands on. We got arrange tiles over a white light and see how they reflected in a mirror, be got to use mirrors and filters to bounce light around, we wore cool color filter glasses while looking at pictures, and saw of the different filters completely changed the way the photographs looked. But the very coolest thing was the shadow room. We went into a dark tent, and stood up against a white screen, then we pushed a button that turned on a light for about 3 seconds, the we moved away. Turns out the screen was glow-in-the-dark, and after the light went off and we moved the screen glowed everywhere except where our shadows were. It was so cool! And we had a lot of fun playing with it.


After the NASA Blast exhibit, we went on to the normal Museum of Ancient Life. I love this museum, I think it's so well done. They've made it informative and interesting enough for adults/older kids, who want to learn the facts, but they've also done a really nice job of strategically placing a lot of hands on things for the younger kids. A very family oriented environment.




Here's Aaron and the kids. We have a pretty good lookin' family if you ask me.



When I asked Lincoln this morning if he wanted to go to the dinosaur museum he said no. I asked him why, and he said, "because all the dinosaur bones are scared of me." I thought that was funny.

The boys had so much fun looking at the dinosaurs. But I think they liked the hands on stuff even better. In my opinion the erosion table is the coolest part of the whole museum, especially for the kids (and Aaron). I think we spent a whole hour in there. Basically it's a giant sand and water table. There is sand all over on the inside of the table, and then every so often a water spickett is sticking up, with water coming out of it slowly. The idea is to build a big island or sand structure of some sort (you are provided with plastic trees and dinosaurs to decorate with) and then you watch as the water slowly erodes away whatever it is that you built. This go around, Aaron and the boys tried really hard to make river beds. There was a big poster up on the wall that explained how deep canyons are formed when the water doesn't have any where to go, so the river bed gets deeper and deeper until there's are steep canyon walls for banks. I don't know if this poster inspired Aaron or not, but that's basically what he and the boys were trying to do. They'd dam up the water while they made a path for the river to flow, and then when they were ready they'd knock the dam out really fast, and the water would come rushing in and follow the path the boys had made for it. Lincoln was really interested in how the strong current of the water would pull his plastic dinosaur along. Ivan really liked decorating the banks of the river with plastic trees. A few of the other kids that were there got in on the action too. You just can't resist Aaron when he's on a roll. :) We had to leave the erosion table once Ivan started eating sand. Not very tasty Ivan.
Adelia was really good for the most part. She sat happily in her stroller. We did get her out a few times so she could look around, or be in a few pictures. I thought she'd take a nap in her stroller, but she didn't want to miss out on the action. She was wide eyed and bushy tailed the whole time. Oh ya, and slobbery.


We saw a lot more cool things. There was a Build-A-Dino room, where there was a giant dino body in the middle of the room, and then stuck to the walls with Velcro were various arms, legs, heads, tails, spikes, horns, attachments, etc. and you could choose whichever ones you wanted and create your very own dinosaur by velcroing all the pieces onto the body. The kids had fun with this too.

The boys were a bit afraid of the the giant shark. They would not turn their backs to it for a picture until Aaron went over and sat with them. I don't blame them one bit, I think that shark could swallow all of us in one bite.


Two years ago when we came for my birthday, I was 8 and a half months pregnant with Ivan. I thought this egg was the funniest thing in the world, because it was about the same size and shape as my belly, so I looked as if I had swallowed something similar. So this go around, Aaron wanted me to do a picture of the egg with me and Ivan in it. I'm so glad Ivan is not still in my tummy.


The last exhibit before you leave the museum is a giant sandbox. The kids get paint brushes and they get to go find the dinosaur bones that are buried underneath the sand. Whoever came up with this idea was a freakin' genius. This is something I would have LOVED as a kid! My kids enjoyed it also, although I think Ivan was a bit more into it than Linc was.


We had such a wonderful day. I never regret doing fun things together as a family. I'm glad we chose to go to the dinosaur museum instead of the aquarium, I think dinosaurs are more up my kids' alley anyways, they aren't big animal lovers. We can always go see the fish at Wal-Mart for free. :)

Happy Birthday to me!

Mini Preschool: Teddy Bear Picnic



I'm a little behind on the blogging. Sometimes we go for days with nothing exciting to blog about and then BAM! One thing right after another that I want to blog about and I get behind.

Anyways, preschool on Thursday was at Cali's house. The kids got to bring a stuffed animal with them, so that they could have a Teddy Bear (or other stuffed creature) picnic. First Cali spread out a big blanket on the living room carpet for all of the kids to sit on. Then they went around the circle and introduced their stuffed animal. It was funny because almost every kid it went something like this,
"Linc, what's your animal?"
"This is my lion."
"What's your lion's name?"
"Lion (duh)"

After that Cali talked about picnics and the kinds of things we bring with us on a picnic. She read the kids a cute story about a little boy and his mom who go on a picnic in the woods and meet a big bear who eats their lunch and even their pie.

The kids got to dance around to the song Teddy Bear picnic. And then we piled all their animals in the center of the blanket and stood around holding the edges and on the count of three we tossed the animals up into the air. The kids LOVED this activity. It's the first thing Lincoln told Aaron about at dinner when Aaron asked how preschool was.

Cali read another story called The Hungry Caterpillar. Then handed out bingo sheets to the kids, and read the story again and every time she said a food that the Caterpillar ate, the kids got to put a piece of candy on the picture of that food on their bingo card. After that we made our own hungry caterpillars out of colorful paper circles and miniature brads. When they were all finished the kids crawled the caterpillars (because of the brads they could move, super cute!) into the kitchen and back into the living room.

At the end, each kid got his/her very own picnic lunch in a paper sack. My kids were really excited, and I was thrilled that I wouldn't have to make them lunch later! :) I love preschool.

Apple Peanut Spinach Salad

One of my new best friends is allrecipes.com I love the whole concept of this website. Sharing recipes, but also sharing feed back and different things people do with the recipe, and the reviews. I love it! Here's one of my awesome finds. I made this a couple weeks ago to take to a family party. Everyone loved it. Everyone wanted the recipe. Here it is.

Ingredients:

2 (6 ounce) packages fresh baby spinach
1 medium apple, chopped
1/4 cup raisins
2 tablespoons chopped peanuts
2 tablespoons olive oil 1 tablespoon sugar
1 tablespoon cider vinegar
1 tablespoon chutney
3/4 teaspoon curry powder
1/4 teaspoon salt

Directions:
1. In a large bowl, combine the spinach, apple, raisins and peanuts. In a jar with a tight-fitting lid, combine the remaining ingredients; shake well. Drizzle over salad and toss to coat.

Friday, February 18, 2011

On My Mind...


-Adelia can roll over from front to back now. Not too long and she'll be all over the place. I should probably start being very aware of what the boys are playing with that might be too small for her. Just thinking about it sounds exhausting.


-I feel like I don't spend as much one on one time with Ivan as I should. I get plenty with Adelia out of necessity, and I get an hour every day with Linc while the other kids are sleeping...I'm not sure how to or where to work in some one on one with Ivan, but I really need to figure it out.

-I am in the middle of writing my article for March, I'm trying to use the ideas that I am planning on using for my March preschool day too. But the article is due before the preschool day...so I don't have a chance to experiment on the kids before I recommend certain activities.

-I want to eat at Texas Road House. REALLY bad. But not bad enough to have that be the only thing I get for my birthday :(


-This picture makes me wonder if our family pictures next Saturday are going turn out at all. My kids are so uncooperative in front of a camera. Blah!

-I am not a Coupon Queen. My husband (if he knew such a thing even existed) might like me to be, but I'm not willing to sell my soul to the coupon catalogs to save a couple bucks.


-Adelia likes to suck on they boys' toy snake. I'm taking this as a sign that she's NOT going to be a girly girl. I can only hope I'm right.

-I'm about ready to toss the "magic rope" right out the window.

-I really really want to move. Aaron says we can put in our 30 days notice on April 1st. That better not be an April Fool's joke.


-I wish pictures that I took inside our apartment turned out better than they do. I think the picture above of Adi and Linc is adorable, but the color looks gross.

-I am not a touchy feely person...why did I have children? Do I look like a jungle gym? *sigh*

-The sun will come out....tomorrow?


-Is it nap time yet?

-Is it possible to have so much to do and not enough time to do it AND not enough things to fill the time you have at the same time? Because that's how I feel.

-Look out everyone...Birthday Week is next week!! And actually, the kick off is Saturday. We're taking the kids to the Aquarium in SLC. Sunday is combined b-day dinner with Melissa at Uncle Richard's and Aunt Debby's. Monday my parents are taking us to dinner. Tuesday is the real deal. And who knows after that. :)

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Brainstorming Birthday Ideas for Ivan

Ivan's 2nd birthday is coming up so fast! He's kind of hard to buy for (must get that from his dad), so I'm starting the brainstorming process early this year. I haven't decided yet what of these things we'll be getting for him.
Nesting Sort & Stack Cylinders
I love this Cylander Stacking and Nesting set from Guidecraft. They also have one that is cubes. This is the type of thing Ivan would be all over. He LOVES containers, and sorting things. This set gets great reviews.

Ivan has been really into wooden puzzles for the last little while too, but he's getting bored with all of the ones we have. I was looking at a few Melissa and Doug ones, and I came across this little beauty.
I also think Ivan is going to be a builder, and because he likes nesting and stacking so much, I think Wedgits would make a great building toy for him.

He's also really into books. I recently discovered the they make Sheep on a Ship by Nancy Shaw in a board book now. I'm really liking that idea, both my boys really love the Sheep books she does. I'm also thinking maybe The Cat in the Hat Comes Back, since he likes Cat in the Hat so much. He also likes the "I Spy Little ...." books, so I might try seeing if there are more of those that we don't already have.

Mega Bloks Cat Large Vehicle Dump TruckIvan really likes big machines...diggers, cranes, bulldozers, tractors, etc. I think I'm going to try and make him an excavator cake. We'll see how that goes. But the perfect present to go along with that would be this Mega Bloks Cat Large Vehicle Dump Truck.
I'll figure it out I'm sure, but I've had these few ideas, and I didn't want to forget about them, so here they are.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Adi the Lamanite


On Sunday I was getting Adelia ready for church. For the finishing touch, I was trying to put a headband on her head. I was holding her in one arm, so I only had one hand to try and get the headband on, and she was wiggling. I got it on, but not right, so I went to ask Aaron to hold her while I got it on straight. He told me no, not until he took a picture. Linc came in the room, took one look at Adi and said, "Mom look! Adelia is a Lamanite!" He was so excited.

We took Adelia in for her 6 month check up today...a week late because last week the pediatrician was sick and had to reschedule. She weighs 19.8 pounds and is 26 inches long, about the 90th percentile for both. This doctor (we see all different ones at the student health center) said that because her height and her weight were proportional that Adi is not over weight, which is basically what I'd already concluded after the doc told us she was at the last visit. All my kids have been in the 90s.

The doc also said that her lungs sound great...very clear. So there is no need to proceed with a chest x-ray. I'm really glad that feeding her more slowly and burping her more often is doing the trick.

Items Found Under the Washing Machine/Dryer

1 bike lock key
3 colored pencils
1 screw
1 unidentifiable piece of metal
1 pencil
1 pen
1 marker cap
4 animal magnets
1 Letter I magnet
1 plastic lasso from the Lincoln Log set
1 rock
1 car magnet
1 sock
4 wooden spoons (the reason we went digging under the dryer in the first place)
1 dry erase marker
2 crayola markers
1 comb
1 missing puzzle piece
1 pumpkin gut scraper
3 paper crabs
Cheerios and other cereal
2 plastic forks
14 marbles
13 wooden Jenga blocks
1 super glue cap
1 Trio rod
1 wooden clothes pin
1 plastic deodorant top
2 plastic spoons
3 paper clips
1 roll of medical tape
1 Reese's Peanut Butter Cup wrapper
25 foam cubes
1 penny
1 1/2 eaten tootsie roll
1 extra Valentine
6 wooden beads
1 bouncy ball
lots of crumbs, dryer lint, and paper scraps

Monday, February 14, 2011

Valentines Day 2011

I've been helping the boys make their Valentine's for about two weeks now, here a little and there a little. We did the ones to the family first so we could get them in the mail on time, then we made some for the boys' friends who live in the apartment complex. They had a great time cutting out and gluing down hearts and smearing glitter glue all over the place, and putting stickers on their Valentines. I had Lincoln trace the letters of the name of the person each Valentine was to, and a short message on the back, then he wrote his name all by himself on each one. I figured with about 20 Valentines, that he was getting some great practice! :) Ivan got to color and glue and glitter each of his, and he was thrilled.


Sunday we made Rice Krispy treats in the shape of hearts and stuck sticks in them like suckers. Then we drizzled a little bit of chocolate over each one, and wrapped them in a sandwich baggy.
For Family Home Evening we talked a little bit with the boys about loving our neighbors, sang the song As I Have Loved You, read a couple scriptures about love, and then went and delivered the Valentines and heart suckers to their friends. They had a great time.

I was going to plan a fantastic red and white dinner, but I forgot that Monday is the day Aaron goes to Spanish Fork, so I didn't have a car. Instead, I made heart shaped biscuits and white sauce with peas, and died the biscuits pink with food coloring.


During the day, the boys and Adelia and I worked on making Aaron a Valentine sign, since we didn't go up to his office to decorate it like we usually do. We made the heart prints with the backs of our fists, except for Adelia who wouldn't cooperate, so she just did a hand print. I thought it turned out cute.


After we put the kids to bed, Aaron and I swapped Valentines. He made me this awesome 3-D card with a bouquet of chocolate roses on it. (I'll be honest, when I first saw it, I thought the roses were a tree, but I still loved it.)


We drank a bottle of bubbly that my Mom and Kerry gave us for V-day, then we danced in the living room to the Love CD I made. We were even able to pull off the back flip move for the first time in years, since I am not pregnant. It was fun.

Happy V-day everyone!

Aaron's Love Novel and V-day Present

Dear Aaron,

Happy Valentine’s Day! I know I usually find some “classic” love poem to give you with your Valentine, but I’m running out of those. I also didn’t have the stamina to bring three children to your office and decorate your desk like I usually do. I guess I’m getting lamer as the years go on. But I did try to put my thoughts into something. So this year for Valentines Day, I decided to make you a Love CD. But I don’t think it’s your typical love CD…aka you won’t find all the cheesy stake dance songs on it. What I tried to do was think of the songs that are connected with memories I have of you and me. I’ll try to explain as I go…

Track 1- I Believe in a Thing Called Love by The Darkness
I think I’ve told you this before, but when we were dating I used to listen to this song while I was getting ready to go out with you. It’s upbeat, and I always thought it reflected my excitement to see you.

Track 2- Accidentally in Love by Counting Crows
This one is pretty self explanatory, but it always makes me think about how when I first met you I had no intentions of falling for you…but it happened anyway.

Track 3- Life Less Ordinary by Carbon Leaf
If I had to pick just one song to be “our song”, this one would be it, no contest. I know that might seem weird, but there are a lot of lines in here that just remind me of us. Some examples: “Well I hate to be a bother, But it's you and there's no other, I do believe…” and “My face had said too much, Before our hands could even touch, To greet a 'hello' (So much for going slow...), A little later on that year I told you that I loved you dear What do you know? This you weren't prepared to hear…” Those are two.

Track 4- Better Together by Jack Johnson
This is one of my favorite songs because I think it fits us. I am better because I have you in my life, and I hope you are better because you have me. Together I feel like we can do anything…even raise these three crazy children. “I believe in memories They look so, so pretty when I sleep Hey now, and when I wake up, You look so pretty sleeping next to me But there is not enough time, And there is no, no song I could sing And there is no, combination of words I could say But I will still tell you one thing We're better together.”

Track 5- Fidelity by Regina Spektor
This song reminds me of our first apartment, which I think, is where we were living the first time we heard this song. I remember sitting in the living room and just laughing our heads off, and then deciding that we both really liked this song.

Track 6- Come Away With Me by Nora Jones
I think this song is so poetic. Just the way it’s written and the words she uses plant a beautiful image and feeling of love in my mind. That feeling reminds me of you. I think this song captures the emotion of love, rather than the physical aspects of it. That’s why I like it so much.

Track 7- Banana Pancakes by Jack Johnson
This song reminds me of living in Phoenix. Mostly because you worked late, but didn’t start until afternoons, so we always had the mornings together and we could sleep in or do whatever we wanted because it was before we had any kids. “The telephone is singing Ringing It's too early Don't pick it up We don't need to we got everything We need right here And everything we need is enough Just so easy When the whole world fits inside of your arms Don't really need to pay attention to the alarm Wake up slow, yeah, wake up slow” I miss when we could wake up slow.

Track 8- Firecracker by Josh Turner
This song reminds me of Texas, where we heard it on the radio for the first time. You promised that someday we’d swing dance to it when I wasn’t pregnant. I love swing dancing with you, and if I remember right, that’s why I wanted you to come on that date with me to the Wells Fargo Dance even though we’d decided to just be friends, because I knew you could dance.

Track 9- Our Song by Taylor Swift
This one reminds me of Texas too. It also reminds me of the time I was driving Tanner somewhere in the car and it was on the radio, and he mentioned that you’d been singing this song earlier while you were with him. He thought it was funny, I thought it was cute. I love that you sing and drum on the steering wheel.

Track 10- I’m Yours by Jason Mraz
Whenever I hear this I go back to an afternoon in the summer when you and Lincoln and I went to the frozen yogurt place. This song was on the radio while we sat down to eat. And at that moment life just seemed so wonderful and good.

Track 11- 1,2,3,4 by Plain White T’s
This song is a little different, but I like it. The reason it reminds me of you…I feel like you always have such wonderful compliments and things to say to me, and whenever I try to come up with something, the first thing I think of is “I love you.” And that always seems to describe it all. “There’s only one way to say those three words, and that’s what I’ll do…I love you.”

Track 12- Bubbly by Colbie Caillet
This song is pretty self explanatory also. But I really love the word choice “crinkle my nose” because I find that I do that.

Track 13- Alright by Darius Rucker
This song reminds me of our entire married lives thus far. We’ve been poor students, and we don’t have a lot of fancy things, but I think it’s safe to say that we are happy.

Track 14- Smile by Uncle Kracker
Also self explanatory. But you do make me smile, all the time. And I do think you are “better than the best” and “cooler than the flip side of my pillow”

Track 15- If Its Love by Train
This is my ringtone when you call me, so obviously I think of you whenever I hear it. But I also think this one has some great lines…”I confess you are the best thing in my life…” “But you are the greatest thing about me” “Hold our cell phones up in the air And just be glad that we made it here alive On a spinning ball in the middle of space I love you from your toes to your face”

So there you are Love, 15 songs that make me think about you. I love you and I hope you have a great Valentines Day.

Love,

Krystal

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Comparing and Competing

In his April 1997 general conference talk “Because She is a Mother”, (which is an exceptional talk that offers a lot of great encouragement to young mothers, and makes me cry every time I read it) Elder Holland tells of one young mother who wrote to him that “…she felt like the world expected her to teach her children reading, writing, interior design, Latin, calculus, and the Internet—all before the baby said something terribly ordinary, like “goo goo.”” This week I think I relate to this woman’s feelings.

The Great Comparison among mothers, seems to start the second a baby is born. Mothers get together and want to know who had the biggest baby, or the fastest labor, or the most life threatening experience. After that it’s all about baby milestones, whose baby is the best sleeper, whose baby nurses/rolls over/sits up/eats solids/crawls/walks/talks first, or best. And I’m starting to notice that there never seems to be an age at which the child grows out of these comparisons. It’s frustrating and exhausting. On one hand you want no part of it, but on the other, you feel this mother bear instinct to stick up for your child and make sure that his/her accomplishments are recognized, and “prove” so to speak that even if they still have a binky at the age of three, or aren’t chowing down on roast beef at 6 months, or have no desire to name 20 different species of animal, that they are still a smart, healthy, and happy child who is doing just fine.

Sometimes, it’s not even two mothers comparing their children, but a third party. I’ll mention in passing that I’m excited that one of my kids just started to do some new thing, and before I can even finish my sentence the third party is saying, “Well you know so-and-so’s baby/child has been doing that for 3 months now, and they do it ten times better. They are just the smartest, most wonderful child I’ve ever seen.” Okay, maybe not in those exact words, but you get the feeling that’s coming across. Frankly, I don’t care about so-and-so’s child. All I care about is that yesterday my child couldn’t do some certain thing, and today he/she can.

As bad as the comparing gets, I feel like that’s not even the worst of it. It seems like once the comparing gets to a certain point, then competing starts to sneak into to the background. And pretty soon its things like, “Well, my three year old can read Shakespeare backwards, while standing on his head for two hours straight. Can yours?” Or, “Hmm, your child always makes homemade birthday cards for your family members, I think my kids will do that from now on, but they’ll be bigger and better and the handwriting will be nicer, AND I’ll make sure I show them to you before I send them, just so you know that your kids’ aren’t as good.” Or, “Let’s get our toddlers together and sing songs, that’ll be fun for them, but secretly in the background I’m going to pay very close attention to how well your child knows the lyrics to a certain song that my child can sing perfectly, and then I’ll for sure make sure I tell you afterwards that your child is not as competent as mine in this area.” Am I exaggerating here? Maybe a little, but with the intent of getting my point across. Am I the only one who feels like this sometimes? Am I the only one who is sick to death of it?

The fact is that ALL kids develop and learn differently, and at their own pace. Kids have different interests, different strengths, different weaknesses, different learning styles, different challenges, different personalities, different parents, different schedules, different friends, different environments. They are exposed to different things/places/people/situations/ideas/information, etc. So it would be completely asinine to compare any one child with any other child, and it would be even worse to get a competitive mind set about what your kids are doing and learning.

And as annoyed with and tired of all of the above as I am, I still feel like it’s almost impossible to keep from getting sucked in to it. I'm tired of letting this ruin my day. I'm frustrated with myself that I let it get under my skin and irritate me so often. I'm disappointed that I sometimes find myself participating, despite my best intentions. But I do it because I get mad. And I'm mad that I get mad over it. The whole thing is stupid, and I'm wishing it would just go away and that we could all just be happy for the individual accomplishments of individual kids without having to put them side by side to see how they "measure up" to each other.

And so... I’m venting.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Mini Preschool: Valentine's Day

Thursday we had Preschool at Misty's. To start off she had the kids list off people that they love, and she wrote them down on the white board. They got a pretty good list, including Mom, Dad, Brothers, Sisters, Self, grandmas, grandpas, friends, cousins, and treats. :) We sang some songs about love. Skinamarinka Dinky Dink, which goes like this:

Skinamarinka dinky dink
Skinamarinka doo, I love you
Skinamarinky dinky dink
Skinamarink a doo, I love you

I love you in the morning and in the afternoon,
I love you in the evening and underneath the moon!
So, Skinamarinka dinky dink
Skinamarink a doo, I love you

And the I Love You song, off of Barney.

I love you
You love me
We're a happy family
With a great big hug
And a kiss from me to you
Won't you say you love me too.

We also sang, I Love Mother

I love mother,
She loves me
We love Daddy yes siree
He loves us and so you see
We are a happy family

But we substituted out mother and daddy, for the names of the kids. I think they really liked having a song sung about them.

Next we went into the kitchen and decorated paper bags with hearts, so we could pass out Valentines later. Then Misty gave the kids each two sections off of an egg carton, and they got to choose to paint it either white, red, or pink.

Some of the kids painted faster than others. (Lincoln was so SLOW.) So while the ones who were done waited for Linc to finish, they sang a few primary songs. When Linc finished, he ran out into the living room and wanted to pick the next song. He picked True to the Faith. Misty tried to explain to him that not everyone would know the words to that song, but Linc decided to sing it anyways. He sang a solo for everyone, and he did a great job! It made me laugh.

Next Misty explained about how we trade Valentines with our friends on Valentines Day. She gave each kid enough Valentines to give to all the other kids. Then we spent a little bit of time writing who they were to and who they were from on each Valentine. Since I had to help both Linc and Ivan with their Valentines, I wrote who each one was to for Linc, but left him on his own to write his name on each one. He did a pretty good job. He's getting really good at writing the letters of his name, even though he doesn't understand (or care) that they are supposed to go in a certain order and in a straight line. He'll get that eventually though, right now I'm just thrilled that he loves to write his name...even if he writes it backwards, in a circle, or with all the letters right on top of each other. The important thing is that he is writing and that he understands what each letter looks like and how to make it. After we were done writing, we got to go around and deliver each Valentine into the paper bag of the person it was too. The kids enjoyed this a lot more than I expected them to.

Then we went back into the kitchen and used the egg carton pieces we had painted, some squares of tissue paper, and green pipe cleaners to make roses. The kids got to make one for them, and one to give to their moms.


Then for the last thing, the kids got to dip strawberries in chocolate and decorate them. They got two to do for them, and two to do for their dads. I thought this was such a fun idea. It was easy enough for the kids to do, and so TASTY! I bet Aaron's glad he's got two kids in this preschool, because he is definitely reaping the benefits today. (Although, I should mention that Ivan's strawberries weren't dipped in chocolate, because of the milk issue, but they were dipped in a sugar and water icing that was very tasty on the strawberries!)

I loved preschool today. I thought it was well put together and kept the kids attention in different ways. They didn't stay at one activity long enough to get bored with it, and therefore got a wide variety of experience.

Oh, and I should also mention that as soon as we got home Lincoln and Ivan wanted to open all the Valentines from their friends, and they were both so excited about it. I thought they would be too young to really get into it, but they really did. They wanted me to read what each one said and who it was from and everything. It kept them fully occupied while I made lunch.

 *Sorry about the lack of pictures, I didn't take my camera, so all I've got is what I took afterwards.

Some Random Things...


This is going to be one of those all over the place posts I seem to be getting really good at. :) This is Lincoln's pirate ship. He built it all by himself during quiet time last Sunday. I was pretty impressed. It's probably the coolest thing he's ever built completely on his own. The green pieces sticking out of the front are cannons. On the left side he used a helicopter blade to make a steering wheel. And on the right side is the captain's cabin complete with roof. When I asked him where he was going to sail in his ship he said he wanted to sail to Arizona to visit Aunt Stacey. He's been sailing it around our living room all week, and asks me to put it up high when Ivan is awake, so it won't get broken.


I think at some point in their lives all of our kids have fallen asleep in the jumpy chair, and Adelia is no exception.


Adelia loves her two big brothers. If they are in the room then she has to be watching them, which has been making feeding her a bottle interesting. In this picture, Lincoln is jumping up and down and making her laugh.

The two pictures of the hearts in our window, are an art project gone bad. I read in one of my kids craft books about shaving crayons and then cutting a pattern out of wax paper (we chose hearts) and spreading the shavings on it, covering that with another piece of wax paper, covering that with a towel, and then ironing it. It did not mention that the kitchen towel should be an old one you don't care about. We ruined one of my white dish towels...it now has really stiff waxy heart shapes all over it. Oops. Also, we thought it would be cool to mix colors, but they just came out black. Hence the two black hearts at the bottom of the window. The red ones turned out ok, but I don't think they were anything overly fantastic. I think paint would have looked just as cool, been a lot less messy, and kept the kids attention longer.


I found this love note on the bottom of the bath tub the other morning when I went to get in. Proof that Aaron still loves me, even though I'm crabby in the mornings until after I get a shower. He's the best.


The three amigos, Carson (lives next door), Lincoln, and Ivan. We watched Carson for a couple hours so his parents could go on a hot date. :) The boys wanted to play pirate ship on the bunk beds. So here they are up on Ivan's bed. When Aaron asked them each who they were Carson said, "Captain Carson." Linc said, "Long John Silver." And Ivan said, "A boy!" That Ivan. He sure is turning out to be one funny kid. I love that his sense of humor is so much different than Lincoln's. They are both so funny in different ways. They love their buddy Carson, and were so happy he got to come hang out with us all evening.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Book Review: Alpha Bravo Charlie: The Military Alphabet

My good friend Suzy and I have both (without talking about it first, funny hu?) decided that each time we go to the library we are going to check out non-fiction books (in addition to our fiction books) for the kids. While talking about it today, Suzy had the great idea that we should start a new shelf on our goodreads.com
accounts (if you are on goodreads and we are not friends, let me know, I'd love to be friends! I'm always looking for good books and like to read the reviews of people I know.) to keep track of the good non-fiction books for preschoolers, because they are a little hard to find. So, here's the first additon to Lincoln's Non-Fiction Shelf.


Alpha Bravo Charlie: The Military Alphabet by Chris L. Demarest

 3 of 5 stars


Linc absolutely LOVES this book, and would have given it 5 stars. Me, I'm not a huge fan, and probably would give it only 1 star. But since there is really nothing wrong with it, I met Linc in the middle and gave it 3 stars.

I like the idea of learning the military alphabet, and I thought the preface and end notes of the book were really interesting. Each letter has what they use in the military, so for example A is for Alpha, B is for Bravo, etc. And then it gives a little sentence at the bottom of the page that uses a word for the letter in some sort of military context. So for example, Brave soldiers prepare for Battle. It's not graphic (no blood or guts or anything, and it's not political, and it has some pretty good pictures of airplanes, tanks, ships, etc. which is probably why Linc loved it so much. I was kind of hoping it would have been more about the military alphabet, like why the decided to use alpha for A instead of like Atlantic or something. In the very least, they could have made it rhyme or a little more catchy, or put some sort of thought into it. That's why I didn't like it I guess, I felt it was lacking the creativity or deeper insight I wanted. But a three year old isn't look for deeper insight, so it worked well for Linc. :)

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Starting Somewhere

Here is my February article for the Sentinel:

Starting Somewhere


When I first made the decision to home school, I was very excited and wanted to jump right in, but I hadn’t done much research along the lines of what to teach preschoolers, or where to start. Where to start? My oldest wasn’t going to be preschool age for a year and a half, so I knew I had time to look into what a preschool curriculum might entail, but I wanted to get in the habit of doing “educational” type things with him on a regular basis.

I was a little nervous about my over all teaching capabilities, but figured I could probably handle the ABCs. Introducing the alphabet seemed like a good idea, so I started with a few letters. My husband and I were able to pique Lincoln’s curiosity by hanging the letters of his name up on the wall in his bedroom. When he began to recognize those, we showed him that there were even more letters than just the ones in his name. This led to coloring pictures of the letters, and singing the alphabet song.


Our most successful approach to teaching the alphabet was probably teaming up with a friend of mine whose son is Lincoln’s age. She and I created a structured playdate for the kids called Letter Day. Once a week we got together and took turns planning an hour’s worth of activities around each letter of the alphabet. Some of my favorite activities were flying paper airplanes on a string for A Day, cooking chocolate chip cookies for C Day, packing a pizza picnic to eat at the park for P Day, and making yaks out of yellow yarn for Y Day. Letter Day was a great opportunity for the kids to have fun learning in a social setting. And because my friend and I have different teaching styles, we learned new things from each other that helped us both to be better teachers.


Although it took a little over a year to go through every letter, at age three Lincoln now knows all of them. He became aware of the alphabet because we spent time pointing out letters and making their sounds each day. These and other activities helped him develop a curiosity about words, which is where we are now.

Where we are now feels like a long way from where we started. One of the most helpful things I’ve gained over the last year is a list of resources. These resources gave me some great ideas for Letter Day and other alphabet activities, but I think they will continue to be useful as we’re heading into the preschool years. Below I’ve listed some of my go-to ABC resources. They are the first places I go when I need an idea.

Internet- The internet is an awesome resource, and I found most of the ideas I used for Letter Days online. Also, when all else fails, do a Google search. Some of my favorite websites are:
-ABC and 123
-First School
-ABC Stuff
-DLTK
Media- There is lots of educational media out there in TV shows, movies, and music. Here are some that I really like.
-Letter Factory and Talking Words Factory DVDs from Leapfrog
-Sesame Street, I found lots of the alphabet clips on YouTube (C is for cookie is a good one), and a Sesame Street ABC soundtrack at the library.


Books- Some of our favorite alphabet books are
-Shiver Me Letters: A Pirate’s ABCs by June Sobel,
-Dr. Seuss’s ABCs by Dr. Seuss,
-I Spy Little Letters by Jean Marzollo,
-A to Z by Sandra Boynton,
-Book of Mormon ABCs by Val Chadwick Bagley
-Hungry Monster ABC: An Alphabet Book by Susan Heyboer O’Keefe

Story Time- Our local library does story time several times a week. Each week they spotlight a different letter and all the activities/songs/stories focus on that letter. Check your library and see what programs they have to offer.

*If you are interested in Letter Days, you can see the blog posts for each letter here.