Thursday, March 22, 2018

Book Review: Peace Like a River

Peace Like a River by Leif Enger
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

If I were ever going to write a book, this is exactly the kind of book I would want to write. This book was a pleasure to read. The first person narrator is 11 year old Rueben Land, and he is a gem. His witty, well-timed humor had me laughing out loud in pure delight in so many unexpected places.

Little sister Swede is a character I wish I knew in real life. The way she uses her love of westerns, history, and poetic ballad to shape her thoughts, her actions, and her relationships with others fits comfortably and easily into a story that has a modern-day western feel to it. The other characters are equally well done. Really the people, and their relationships to each other, make this story for me.

But the plot is interesting too, and flows smoothly (true to title) like a river; not too fast or too slow, taking some unexpected turns along the way. I love the human-ness of it, but also the heroic ballad feel of it. The author did a great job having those two things flow naturally together.

"There's nothing like good strong meter to make a poem mind it's manners."

"Then each man felt the air go still; each felt a stab of dread;
Each heard the sound of danger in a dancing mustang's tread.
They watched the horse come down the street; they watched the rider halt;
They watched him size them man by man, as if he knew each fault.
His clothes and hat were black as ink, his dancing mustang pale'
His eyes were blue and hard enough to make the sun turn tail.
He sad, "You want to hang this man, I'll give you each the same.
I don't much like a mob," he said, "and Sundown is my name."

“Sometimes heroism is nothing more than patience, curiosity, and a refusal to panic.”

“Fair is whatever God wants to do.”

“Real miracles bother people, like strange sudden pains unknown in medical literature. It's true: They rebut every rule all we good citizens take comfort in. Lazarus obeying orders and climbing up out of the grave - now there's a miracle, and you can bet it upset a lot of folks who were standing around at the time. When a person dies, the earth is generally unwilling to cough him back up. A miracle contradicts the will of the earth.”

“I remember it as October days are always remembered, cloudless, maple-flavored, the air gold and so clean it quivers.”

“You can embark on new and steeper versions of your old sins, you know, and cry tears while doing it that are genuine as any.”

“Once traveling, it's remarkable how quickly faith erodes. It starts to look like something else--ignorance, for example. Same thing happened to the Israelites. Sure it's weak, but sometimes you'd rather just have a map.”

“I breathe deeply, and certainty enters into me like light, like a piece of science, and curious music seems to hum inside my fingers.
Is there a single person on whom I can press belief?
No sir.
All I can do is say, Here’s how it went. Here’s what I saw.
I’ve been there and am going back.
Make of it what you will.”

“So thoughtlessly we sling on our destinies.”

“Before reaching Grassy Butte, though, Dad spied a farmhouse with two pumps in the drive and a red-and-white sign out front saying DALE'S OIL COMPANY. Another sign said CLOSED, but a light was on in the house and Dad pulled in, saying, "I believe we might prevail on Dale. What do you think?"
"Prevail on Dale," I repeated to Swede.
"To make a sale," she added.
"And if we fail, we'll whale on Dale--"
"Till he needs braille!"
"Will you guys desist?" Dad asked.”

“Hope is like yeast, you know, rising under warmth.”

“Yes, yes sir—routine is worry’s sly assassin."

“Is it hubris to believe we all live epics?”

“Sleep that day was a warm pool in which I dove and stayed, sporadically lifting my head to sense the world.”

“Good advice is a wise man’s friend, of course; but sometimes it just flies on past, and all you can do is wave.”


Tuesday, March 13, 2018

February: The Party Animal Month

 February is always a freaktastically action packed month for us. We cram a lot into those mere 28 days. Kick-off was Valentines Day. I make cards for the kids every year, to set beside their plates at breakfast. They make cards for each other as well, and we set those out beside the breakfast plates. And if they were successful in memorizing their poem for the homeschool group poetry recital, they earn a chocolate heart, which they can also find alongside their breakfast plate. I thought the cards turned out so cute this year, even if they were a little out-there. (A rat valentine, really? Yup.)

Valentines was on a Wednesday, which is our co-op and music lessons day. So by the time we get back home I am beat. And I was out of ideas for V-day dinner. But Aaron came to my rescue. He brought home all the fixins for steak, steak fries, salad, and sparkling cider. And it was perfection.





Luckily, our homeschool group decided to do the poetry recital on the Friday after V-day, instead of actual V-day. Life-saver. I volunteered to host at my house so we wouldn't have to rent a space at the library. A lot of people came, but I thought we all fit just fine. All the kids did such a fabulous job with their poems and Valentine boxes. This is one of my most favorite activities every year.

Most but not all of the kids. PC: Arianne
We also hosted 2 family parties in February. One for Aaron's side of the family, a ping-pong tournament and finger food event to celebrate all the February birthdays, which I did not get any pictures of. And one for my side of the family, a joint birthday celebration for Ollie and I. None of my sibling had ever been to my house before. So it was fun to have them up and show them around. I got this one darling pic of Gramma Tam and Papa Kerry with some of the kids.

Gramma Tam, Papa Kerry, Adelia, Nolan, Abi, Ollie, Logan, Graham, Ivan, Lincoln, Sophia, and Ruby

Party on, Dude! Cal is all about the parties.

 Next major event was my birthday! Yay, happy 32 to me. The day before my birthday, Aaron's sister Lisa watched our kids so we could go see The Greatest Showman. And OH MY! The soundtrack alone is perfection itself. And the movie was great too. Clean, funny, well-acted, happy. Also, those luxury lounger seats at the Spanish Fork Movie Theater are a-mazing! The whole theater actually, I've never been to a theater that nice.


 So, day of my birthday we had BIG plans. Aaron had some overtime and needed to take a day off. Aaron's mom was available to watch our kids for the entire day......so we planned an epic snowshoeing adventure. We were going to snow shoe up Stewart Falls. We got as far as renting the snowshoes from BYU and grabbing a quick lunch at Cubby's on the way out, when we got a phone call from Aaron's mom saying that Ollie had a 102 degree fever and we needed to come get him. Poor Ollie! Poor ruined birthday trip! Why does that always happen when you're a mom? I would be lying if I pretended that I wasn't really devastated. Of course I obviously knew I needed to come home and take care of Ollie. But, man! We were so close! Aaron and I RARELY get out to do anything. The stars have to perfectly align and we have to jump through a million hoops and swear a blood-oath, just to make baby-sitting arrangements. Let alone for Aaron to have to take time off, and for none of our kids to have any events on the same day. *SIGH* Not meant to be I guess. I was so bummed. We picked up the kids, and Aaron spent the afternoon doing math with them. I may have cried and had a chocolate eating pity party in my bedroom closet. In the late afternoon, Aaron took all the kids but Ollie to Home Depot to buy supplies for my birthday present, and snuck in a quick stop to Costco to buy my favorite chocolate cake as a surprise. Then we spent the evening remodeling our kitchen island, which is what I had asked for for my birthday present.

BEFORE:

He had to slide it over in order to run the wiring through the floor, so that he could put an electrical outlet on each side of the island. But you can see how plain looking and white it is. 
We added beadboard, trim, and brought the ends out a little ways to give dimension, and added legs. 









Here it is partially finished. It still needs another coat of paint. And I'm still working on sanding down the cabinet doors to paint them. I also need new hardware. Then we are going to sand down and stain the butcher block and seal it. 


Good hair day. Love those.
 Five days after my birthday is Ollie's birthday! This kid is FIVE! I can't even believe it. He wanted a snorkel more than anything else in the whole wide world. He's been talking about it for months and months. Planning it all out. So, of course I couldn't resist. Cutest little snorkeler I ever did see.


We went to the Bean Life Science Museum on BYU campus to celebrate Ollie's day. Right now they have a Titan Boa exhibit on display that did not disappoint. Giant prehistoric, crocodile-eating snakes. What could be better?



Ruby was ALL over the nature journaling today. Isn't she precious? <3 td="">

Other cool things that happened in February:

I got my 23andMe DNA results. Yep, I'm about as European as you can get. Haha! I also don't have any markers for any of the diseases the tested for. I'm excited to spend a little more time digging through all the stuff. I'll keep you posted if I find anything interesting.


It snowed a lot. In one of the storms we got 14 inches! They canceled church, which is a first for me as a life-long Utah resident.






And because it's been snowy and cold, we've been creatively trying to let out some of our energy. We discovered Cosmic Kids Yoga Stories on youtube. Super fun. And poetry tea-time is always a hit, especially when a fire and hot chocolate are involved. And we dug out our At Home Art Studio DVDs for the first time this year and made a mixed media fish in a bowl project.







Although we've been fasting and praying for snow, and I know we need it, and we felt really blessed to get it, I have to admit that I was thrilled to walk outside today and see a small clump of daffodils emerging from the melting snow. I was so inspired I pulled out my nature journal, something I haven't done all winter. It was just a happy little spot of brightness welcoming us into March and promising warmer weather, and more outside time just around the corner.


Thursday, March 1, 2018

5yrs DYT



I've been Dressing My Truth for almost five years now. Whew, what a journey it has been. A good one though. This last year especially, I've been really fine-tuning and tweaking my personal style. I think I spent the first four years exploring the options of what was possible within the Type 3 realm, and now I can really zone-in and define what is "me" and what elements of the style lend themselves to my unique personality. Love it!

I wore this outfit to Aaron's company party in January. 

I want to walk through each outfit. This one above is 10 and one I go back to time and time again. It's a typical "date-night" outfit, haha! Peacock blue is one of my favorite T3 colors, so this cardigan is well-loved, and well-used by me. The tunic underneath, is technically a maternity top, but it's made of that awesome stretchy, spandexy material, so it didn't stay stretched out like a lot of my other maternity clothes. So I choose to wear it even when I'm not preggers. I love the random, asymmetrical pattern that creates swift movement to the outfit. I love that the browns, creams, and teals are more blended, and less bold contrast. I'm not as much a fan of bold contrasting colors, even ones that are within the bounds of the T3 color scheme. This aspect is where I differ from Carol quite a bit, you'll often see her in bold contrasting T3 colors. I like that the tunic is long enough to over my rear-end, but not any longer. This is about as long of a length as I can do on a top. And when I wear a long top like this, I have to pair it with skinny jeans or jeggings, something on the sleeker side. For whatever reason a long tunic with a boot cut jean feels too flowy/bulky to me, even though it really isn't. And anytime I wear my skinnies, I love to use the opportunity to wear my cowboy boots as well. One of my favorite pairs of shoes. To summarize, this outfit is good because the colors are rich, dirty, and warm shades; the design lines are angular and pointed; it has a swift, asymmetrical pattern; wearing layers creates texture, also my hair has a lot of texture, and the threads on my boots (which you can't see well in the picture) are raised to create texture. Really the only one of the five elements that this outfit is missing is fabrication. A T3 generally likes a more substantial fabrication, and technically I suppose my jeans could qualify, but the shirt and the cardigan are both pretty lightweight and soft. Fabrication is probably the hardest element for me, because I like my clothes to be comfortable and stiff scratchy fabrics just aren't, they also restrict movement, and I really need my clothes to allow for my swift, dynamic movement. So that fabrication element has always confused me a little bit. I just count my jeans, since that's the pant style I prefer to wear 99/100 times.

But I can't always wear pants....I mean sometimes I have to go to church, right? Here are a few church outfits:

I wear this combo quite a lot. 


This outfit is probably a 7 or an 8 for me. Which is weird, I'd think it would be higher since a lot of the pieces are favorites by themselves, but maybe not together? I dunno. I still where this outfit quite often to church. If I switch out the heavy sweater for a lighter cardigan, or don't wear anything at all over the green top, I can wear this outfit year round, and I do. The brown sweater is a relic, back from my pre-married days. I actually bought it to wear on my trip to Washington to meet Aaron's family. Back then, I had no idea what to wear it with, and wore a white tank top underneath with jeans and tennis shoes, haha! (check out the picture below) I'm  happy to say, I can style it much more effectively now. I love it's rich brown color, and it's thick, chunky texture. It's pretty rough and scratchy though, which is probably why I don't wear it more often. The green shirt is one of my very favorites. It's the exact right balance of T3 and S2. It's a rich color, it had an asymmetrical v-shaped neck, and the bottom of the shirt has a cool wrinkly texture that looks like a washboard. But it's soft and oh-so-comfy. And the sleeves (which you can't see in this picture) are loose and a little fluttery, but not too fluttery. The skirt is another of my favorites. Comfy. Awesome "wheat-field" pattern. It's one of the very first things I bought from the Dressing Your Truth Store. The second, up-close picture is to show off my jewelry. These earrings were a gift from a good friend and they are my favorite pair of earrings, no contest. They are hand-carved from wood from Samoa. They are earthy and edgy and beautiful. They make my soul sing. And the remind me of my connections with people I love every time I wear them. And the necklace is one given to me by Carol Tuttle after filming a video with her a few years ago. It's not my most favorite but I do like it. I like how the lots of little beads are strung together to make a big, chunky whole. And I like the feather inside the resin, again that's probably a nature thing.

Throwback to pre-marriage, pre-engagement. I went to WA over Christmas break to meet Aaron's family. They were having family pictures taken. I'd love to know what Aaron's mom thought when I showed up to pictures in a brown Target sweater with a white tank top underneath, jeans and tennis shoes. She had the whole family in shirts and ties. Oops. The only reason I was even wearing jewelry was because Aaron had made and given this necklace and earrings to me for Christmas. He didn't know then that I hated jewelry. He's relieved now, that I like it, even if what I like is a bit chunkier and edgier than the original style he made for me. 

Let's look at these two outfits that start with the same base piece:



 I like the first outfit SOOOOO much better than the second. Isn't that interesting, since they are practically the same with different accessories. Outfit number 2 bugs me because it's too color-blocky. There's not enough pattern, design line, and texture in it. I tried to use the scarf to create a pattern and a texture, but I feel like it's really top heavy. I also think the red stands out too much. The outfit really needs a third color to blend everything together and balance it. The first outfit does that really well. The teal and the yellow are both brighter, so neither one stands out more than the other, so they balance well. I also like that I wore the teal cardigan open, instead of buttoned. When it's open you can see the asymmetrical V-neck of the dress (which are the design lines outfit 2 was missing), you can also see the texture around the waste band. The square yellow necklace not only adds color, but a texture that the other outfit was missing. And in outfit number 1 I added my flower belt, which serves as another source of texture, but also to break up that solid block of smooth sweater dress. I think the only thing I like better in outfit 2 is my hair, haha!

That's enough of church outfits though, how about the every day outfits? The functional, comfortable ones that I can conquer the world in, let's look at those. One thing I've noticed about those this winter is that I am obsessed with plaid button ups and vests. Layers, layers, layers. Delicious comfortable layers.

This is my favorite vest. It would even qualify as an appropriate T3 fabrication, because it's thick and a little stiff, but since it's a vest it never touches my skin, and I can move freely and swiftly in it. And it has lot of pockets.

Can't see it very well, but I wear this green sweatshirt that I bought at the DYT store ALL the time. It's border-line T2 color, which is a-okay with me., but since I bought it from DYT I know it's T3 and I use it to color match all the time. 
This seemed like an appropriate place to document Ruby's feisty-adorable new T3 hair cut.



V-neck T, flannel shirt, vest. All day, every day. Love, love, love. I don't know if my glasses are T3, but oh well. 

This outfit is a 10 for me.